Chariot January 2008 - Norm Wakefield  

    To those of you who have emailed or called to encourage me about this series on The Curse of the Standard Bearers, thank you. I'm also grateful for those of you who have expressed questions. Please remember that this is a series. If this is the first article you have read, please read parts one and two at www.spiritofelijah.com/chariot. Thus far I've only begun to discuss the differences between the Standard Bearer and the True Image Bearer. Obviously, I can't address every situation or answer all the questions associated with this topic in one article.

    In this article I will present some similarities and contrasts between the Standard Bearers and the True Image Bearers. There's a fine line to be drawn when we consider people who set standards in their lives. There are similarities as well as differences between the Standard and True Image Bearers. Both may appear intolerant and be unflinching on certain issues, yet appear tolerant to others. The differences lie in the motivation of their hearts, the nearness of the relationship, the source of their standards, and the fruit of their lives.   

Similarities of a Standard Bearer and a True Image Bearer

    A Standard Bearer and a True Image Bearer may have many beliefs and characteristics in common. The Scribes and Pharisees, of whom we read in the gospels, were extremely dedicated people. Had you asked a person of that day who was the most spiritual person he knew, he probably would have named a Pharisee. Pose the same question today and there should be no surprise if someone names a Standard Bearer. They have many good qualities which reveal an admirable dedication and knowledge of God. They are sterling examples of commitment in their churches. They often become leaders in their churches because of their commitment and obedience. Consider the similarities of these two categories of people in the church. Both may...

·         Believe in the inerrancy and sufficiency of Scripture

·         Say they believe salvation is by grace alone and by faith alone

·         Be committed to the advancement of the kingdom of God

·         Be concerned for lost souls

·         Be generous in their giving

·         Say they love the truth

·         Say loving God and others is the greatest commandment of God

·         Practice daily prayer and Bible study

·         Hold a very high value on sanctification

·         Have standards or practices on various issues of lifestyle they believe to be an expression of godliness  

    There could be many other similarities of doctrine and agreement on Bible facts. One might think people with this many commonalities would really click. They might at first, but eventually their differences surface. Jesus' attitude and life constantly irked the Pharisees and vice versa. The same thing happens today.  

Contrasts between a Standard Bearer and a True Image Bearer   

    Although the True Image Bearers have many similar beliefs, commitments, and standards with the Standard Bearers, often their attitude and the way they live out their faith isn't the same. Just like Jesus and the Pharisees held to the inerrancy of Scripture, the resurrection of the dead, and the vital importance of sanctification, the primary difference was the way they lived them out. The Scribes and Pharisees (the Standard Bearers of Jesus' day) elevated their interpretations of Scripture to the same level as the inerrant Word of God. For instance, they felt compelled to correct others for not keeping their interpretations. One example of this would be their reproof of Jesus for not observing the ceremonial washing of hands (Luke 11:38). They considered those who didn't live like they did to be heretics. That's why the Standard Bearers rejected and crucified Jesus. You'll notice many similarities between the Pharisees of Jesus' day and the Standard Bearers of our day.

    Here are a few distinctions between the Standard Bearer and the True Image Bearer. Please keep in mind that these are generalizations and there may be some exceptions. 

The Standard Bearer

The True Image Bearer

He/she lives by standards (Col. 2:16-23).

He/she lives by the Holy Spirit (Gal. 5:25).

He lives to gain man's approval (John 12:43).

He lives confident of God's approval in Christ (Eph. 3:12; Heb. 4:14-16).

He emphasizes making the right choices to gain relationship with Christ (Phil. 3:2,4-6).

He emphasizes making right choices out of relationship with Christ (Phil. 3:3).

He expects of others what he expects of himself - conformity to standards for acceptance (Col. 2:16-23).

He gives grace and forgiveness, yet holds firmly to God's Word. (Col. 3:13, 16).

He uses people to gain significance. If a person advances his name and significance, he may flatter, praise, and accept him (Prov. 29:5).

He is grateful to God and others. Praise and compliments are true and genuine with gratefulness given to God (Eph. 5:20).

He may condemn, judge, slander, and cut off those who don't live by his standards (Matt. 12:14) or he may demand the right to control the child until the child cuts him off (he appears blameless and the child appears rebellious).

He forgives and forbears with those who are different and/or who offend or revile him (Col. 3:13).

He makes standards that are not explicitly given in Scriptures (like the Scribes and Pharisees) and promotes them as spiritual wisdom (Col. 2:20-23).

Boasting only in the righteousness of Christ before God, his standards are determined by (and flow out of) Jesus' standard: love for God and others (Gal. 5:14).

He is proud of his standard bearing and covers, denies, or lies about his faults (Matt. 23:27).

He glories in Jesus and the cross, and confesses his sin and inconsistencies (Gal. 6:14; 1 John 1:9).

He is jealous of those who are free in Christ or those who appear to be more significant (Gal. 2:4; James 3:16).

He praises God and encourages those who are free in Christ and blessed by God (2 Cor. 3:17-18; 1 Pet. 2:16).

He unknowingly or consciously tries to control his children to protect his name and get what he feels he deserves (2 Pet. 2:2).

He trusts God's Spirit to control his children with the purpose of giving him opportunities to love and serve (2 Cor. 3:17; Eph. 5:2).

He may motivate others with praise and flattery. Or he may use fear of rejection and shame to apply pressure to conform (Gal. 2:12).

He motivates others by encouraging them to draw near and hold fast to Jesus (Gal. 2:15-16).

He believes most suffering and trials are because of failure to keep standards, and success and prosperity are because God is pleased with performance (Luke 13:4).

He believes all suffering, trials, and blessings are sent from God to reveal the power of a relationship with Jesus and give practice to drawing near and holding fast to Jesus (Heb. 4:14-16; 1 Pet. 4:12-16).

God judges what He sees by situational tests

    God knows the intentions and motives of the heart (Heb. 4:12-13). We're the ones who don't see ourselves clearly. That's why God often uses situations to reveal what He sees. The Apostle Paul wrote to the Corinthians, "I hear that divisions exist among you; and in part I believe it. For there must also be factions among you, so that those who are approved may become evident among you" (1 Cor. 11:18-19). From these verses and their context, we can deduce that one of the reasons God does not bring people to see issues or interpret Scripture the same in a family, church, or community is for the purpose of making it evident who is a Standard Bearer and who is a True Image Bearer. God could easily bring everyone to the same mind on issues if He wished. The divisive issue in the Corinthian church was head coverings for women. Paul's point was this: the division is necessary to reveal who is motivated by love, the glory of God, and the benefit of others rather than selfish gain (1 Cor. 10:31-33). How can one tell who has been accepted by God? It isn't by where one stands on a given issue.

You can tell by their fruit

    Jesus said you could tell an impostor or the genuine believer by his fruit (Matt. 7:16-20). The discernable differences between the Standard Bearer and the True Image Bearer is in the fruit of their lives. Again, a chart may be helpful to communicate these differences.

The Standard Bearer

The True Image Bearer

What God and the immediate family see and what others see is different. Lack of integrity (Matt. 23:25).

What God and the immediate family see and what others see is the same. Integrity (1 Tim. 3:4-5).

He lives in fear of others discovering his faults and inconsistencies (Prov. 10:9).

He lives securely without fear (Prov. 10:9).

If he can't control his children/parents, he gossips or slanders them as he shifts the blame away from himself (Gal. 5:15; Matt. 15:19).

He refuses to discuss the faults of those who make him look bad, as he trusts God to take care of them and his reputation (2 Cor. 12:7).

He gets angry because he's out of control-his idols are not providing what he desires to accomplish his purposes-gain man's approval or his happiness (Col. 3:8).

He is confident that God is working out His purposes through those who are not fitting into his plans (Col. 3:15).

Others feel unloved and rejected if they don't have the same interpretation of Scripture.

Others feel loved and accepted even if they don't have the same interpretation of Scripture.

The people closest to them live in fear of displeasing them, hurting them, or making them angry.

People feel safe to make mistakes, discuss differences, and grow in sincerity.

The people closest to them feel trapped and compelled to pretend.

People don't feel like they have to pretend.

Their lack of integrity breeds disrespect in those closest to them. (Those who don't know the dynamics in the closest relationships may respect them).

Their integrity breeds respect by others (except for those who they won't allow to set the standards for them).

The people closest to them are afraid to question their standards and express differences.

Others are free to discuss their standards and express their differences.

Some closest to them feel they never measure up. The compliant become favored.

Others are loved and encouraged to grow in love with Jesus.

Some may feel hopeless about the relationship improving in the future.

People are hopeful the relationship will grow closer in the future.

Some people want to escape the pressure and avoid the relationship; others are dependent on their acceptance and allow their lives to be controlled by fear.

People are free to follow the Spirit's leading and are drawn to the life of Jesus in them.

Others are hindered in discovering who they are as sinners and/or in Jesus because they are satisfied with allowing them to set their identities.

Others discover who they are as sinners and/or in Christ resulting in inner security and confidence in God.

    I hope the two charts above have been helpful. I realize questions may arise in your minds. In future Chariots, we will further address specific dynamics between husbands and wives, between parents and minor children at home, between parents and their adult children (whether married or unmarried), and between members in the body of Christ. Until then, I suggest using the above charts for family discussions. Here are some starter questions.

1. Do you think people in your church feel afraid or unable to meet up to your standards? Why? How do you respond when people don't have the same interpretation on issues?

2. Are there people in your church with whom you feel safe and accepted? What makes you feel that way?

3. Make a list of some standards  which you think are clearly stated in the Bible, and then a list of standards which you think are based on interpretations of Scripture, but not clearly stated. Place a star by the ones with which you think others might disagree. How do you respond to them?

4. Evaluate yourself by the charts above. Then ask someone else in your family to evaluate you. (I advise you not to defend yourself if their evaluation differs from your own. Humble yourself and ask God to teach you.) What do you think God sees?

5. What divisions is God using in your family, church, or community to give you opportunities to love?

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